The Family OS: How to Operate Your Home

You’re not just building a company — you’re raising a family and a legacy at the same time. But unlike your business, your home life probably doesn’t have a central hub, shared systems, or a clear mission.

That’s why I built The Family OS.

This is my most requested Notion template yet: a full-blown operating system to run your family with the same precision you run your company. In this week’s video, I walk through exactly how I set it up - from our family’s mission, vision, and rally cry, to the systems for managing documents, kids’ schedules, travel, finances, and more.

🎥 Watch the 8-minute Loom tour

🔧 Why I Built This

Most of us founders are organized at work but chaotic at home. We use project management tools to delegate at work but default to text threads and Post-its for family stuff.

That gap was costing me mental bandwidth — and risking miscommunication with my wife. So I took what I know about operating systems and built one for the most important “organization” I’ll ever lead: my family.

🧭 What’s Inside the Family OS

  • Mission / Vision / Rally Cry
  • Inspired by The 3 Big Questions for a Frantic Family by Patrick Lencioni, I walk you through how to set a 90-day “rally cry” that keeps your family aligned and focused - just like quarterly OKRs.
  • Weekly Check-Ins with Your Spouse
  • A simple habit tracker (with red/yellow/green status updates) that lets you assess how you’re doing in core areas like parenting, marriage, health, faith, and finances.
  • Record keeping for Real Life
  • Store digital versions of your kids’ birth certificates, passports, and prescriptions. Track insurance policies, account logins, and even car maintenance.
  • Delegation-Ready Setup
  • I use an assistant to update the Family OS in real time. When I register a kid for soccer? She logs it. When we book a trip? It’s stored under “Family Travel.” This is a scalable setup you can hand off.
  • Templates for Meal Planning, Travel, and More
  • Pre-built Notion templates make it easy to plan weekly meals (and generate a shopping list), or track all your upcoming family trips with docs and itineraries in one place.

Take Action

If you’re serious about building a thriving business and a thriving family, you need systems for both. This one has been a game-changer for us. Hope it serves you too.

💾 Download the Family OS Notion Template →

🧠 Or just reply and I’ll send you the direct link.